Becoming
Becoming a mother leaves no woman as it found her. It unravels and rebuilds her, it cracks her open, takes her to her edges, it's both beautiful and brutal; often at the same time.
We change when we become mothers, in profound, irreversible ways. Our culture does little to acknowledge this monumental rite of passage; matrescence.
Let me guide you through a process to acknowledge, understand and honour this significant moment in your life journey.
Reconnect to yourself and who you are becoming, so you can feel a deeper sense of acceptance, clarity and a huge dose of compassion for yourself in your mother season.
Do you feel like..
You have changed since you became a mother, but you're still figuring out who this next version of you is and what she wants?
You've heard about matrescence, but you don't quite understand how it's playing out for you in your life right now?
You have a loud inner critic, who's always telling you that you need to do, be or have more to be worthy?
You feel like whats important to you is shifting, but you still find yourself caught up in 'shoulds'?
You are trying to do everything, you're exhausted, yet it's still feels like it's never enough?
You constantly compare yourself, your parenting and your life to others?
Imagine if…..
You are approaching this time in your life with deep reverence and respect, for yourself and the transformation you are undergoing
You feel inspired and confident about the season of life you are in, and where you are heading as an individual and mother.
You have clarity about what is truly important to you right now, in this season of life, and are comparing yourself to others less
You stop comparing yourself, your kids and your motherhood journey to other people, and feel confident about your choices.
You have deeper levels of compassion for yourself, your kids and your partner
Your inner critic has become your inner cheerleader, and you're finally speaking kindly to yourself
Becoming will help you…..
Explore Matrescence - the monumental transformation a woman traverses in her journey to and through motherhood, so you can finally understand why you feel the way you do
Find a whole new level of self compassion (I know that can sound fluffy, but I will show you how to *actually* break the habit of constant self criticism)
Feel proud of all of the ways you are blooming, growing and have persevered through challenge - I know you’re busy, but this is a big moment in *your* life too, so let’s stop and reflect. You are doing awesome - give yourself some credit
Find renewed clarity about what is really important to you right now - It’s time to stop comparing yourself to others or burning the candle at both ends trying to do *all the things*
Craft a clear sense of direction for what you want to create in your life going forward - an inspiring vision for the future helps us feel energised and inspired, especially when we feel like we're drowning in a sea of nappies, nap times or school runs
If you’re nodding your head and saying yes, then Becoming is for you!
Becoming is a one of a kind program for mothers
Becoming is a self-paced program designed specifically for mothers. I will guide you through a process to reflect on your matrescence journey so far, and reorient towards the future with more clarity, energy and inspiration.
We change when we become mothers, in profound ways, across almost every area of our life, all at once
This time of our life can feel overwhelming, because we are not told that when babies are born, you are reborn too.
We're not told that the labour of giving birth to this next version of yourself will be longer, just as painful and just as worthy of reverence and support as the birth of a child.
It's overwhelming, not because you're 'doing it wrong' - but because we are not given a map to navigate this transition, we are left wandering in the dark, trying to find our way.
It's tie to honour the enormity of the transformation you have been on, let me guide you through this process in Becoming.
WHAT YOU GET
In this self paced program, I will take you through a journey to reflect on your experience of matrescence, gain clarity on your values, develop strong skills in self compassion and gain clarity about your future direction.
Self-paced videos
Six short and sharp mini lessons (5-10mins)
Guided Reflections
After each video we go deep into the theme of the video and how it applies to you
Journaling prompts + activities
Complete customised activities to help you gain clarity and take action
BONUS MASTERCLASS
When you join Becoming you'll also receive access to an amazing pre-recorded masterclass with relationship expert, Trish Purnell Webb, tackling the common relationship challenges that parents can experience and how to move through them.
Trish Purnell Webb
Trish Purnell Webb is a Clinical Psychologist and Gottman Institute Master Trainer.
This is a significant moment in your life. It's time to stop and acknowledge your becoming.
WHAT'S COVERED
A guided self paced program you can complete in your own time.
Mini video lessons are delivered to your inbox, ready for you to complete. Each lesson contains a short video, reflection questions and journaling activities. A total of six lessons will guide you through a process of reflecting on your journey of matrescence, help you identify your values and future direction, and give you build practical skills in self compassion.
MATRESCENCE
Learn more about matrescence, the developmental process of becoming a mother, and explore your own journey of becoming.
SELF COMPASSION
Develop practical, real life skills in self compassion, and finally start treating yourself with kindness
SELF-MOTHERING
When we become mothers, we must learn to mother our children and ourselves. Let me know you how to create your own self mothering practice.
CREATE A VISION FOR THE FUTURE
Create a vision for the future that feels energising and inspiring
VALUES + PRIORITIES
Gain clarity about what is truly important to you now, in this season of life, so you can take steps forward with confidence and stop comparing yourself to others.
Practical, simple + efficent
Becoming is designed with busy mums in mind. All of the training is simple, practical and time efficient. The training is delivered through:
- Pre-recorded videos that you can watch on the go on desktop or by downloading our custom app
- Practical worksheets, journal prompts, rituals and activities to get you into alignment
TESTIMONIALS
Here's what some recent participants shared about their experience
Adeline
This course helps you reveal yourself as a woman, a mother. It is amazing to feel like we are not alone to feel these overwhelming emotions that motherhood brings. I learnt things about me through
this course. Thank you.
Leah
Becoming is a lovely way to integrate the experience of Matrescence for any mother, no matter how far into your mothering journey you are. I wish I had done something like this when I first became a mother. It's so valuable.
Taylor
I have enjoyed every moment of Becoming! I have experienced such a profound shift in going
through this course and have incorporated so much of the learnings into my daily life - especially the
self-mothering journalling. So beautiful š
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BECOMING
$157
ONE TIME PAYMENT
6 x self paced videos
Bonus masterlcass
Lifetime access to material
PDF printable resources
Have questions?
We've got answers!
Once purchased you will have lifetime access to the course. The modules in that course are designed so you can complete at your own pace. There are six lessons, which include on average a 5-10 minute video, journaling reflections and homework.
Simple, easy to follow processes to help you understand this phase of your life, show yourself more compassion, drop guilt and comparison and uncover what is truly important to you.
This is a digital product where you receive immediate access to the content. Due to the nature of this, there are no refunds available after purchase.
All of the modules are pre recorded so you can rewatch them whenever you like. You will also receive access to PDF workbooks and audio files. All of the content is deigned to be simple, practical and easy to access. You can access on your computer or you can download an app to your phone to watch and listen on the go.
No. I produce a high volume of free content which you are welcome to, my paid content supports my free work and my family. As per the conditions of purchase, please respect my work, copyright law and do not share your log-in details with anyone else. Anyone found to be sharing my paid content without permission will be removed from the course without warning or refund, and can be liable for damages, as per course terms and conditions.
I’ve made the modules super practical and efficient. Becoming content provides short videos accompanied by journalling and reflective practices that you can do in under 30 minutes. Investing time in your own wellbeing is time well spent!
I'm Nikki and I'll be walking you through this journey
I’m a matrescence educator, women’s life cycle guide and host of the Dear Mama podcast, and I am passionate about supporting mothers through the rite of passage of matrescence.
When a baby is born, so too is a mother. Both are vulnerable, unsteady and trying to make sense of this new world. Becoming a mother leaves no woman as it found her, it unravels her and rebuilds here, it cracks her open, takes her to her edges, it's both beautiful and brutal; often at the same time. This transformation has a name - matrescence.
In Becoming I will guide you through a process of reflecting on your matrescence journey, and who you are becoming now. I'll share practical tools to help you navigate this season of life with greater clarity, acceptance and self compassion.
See you inside xx
